I met my husband years ago. We were friends for about 4 years, dated for 5 years, and married for 2 years. First of all, my husbands family is very sweet, respectful, and genorous. I tell him I have never met a family so loving. lol.
When we were just dating, he knew I had a daughter already from someone else. He was of course ok with her and treated her like his own.
Now my sister in law never acknowledges me. She would barley talk to me and that was because we would be in front of my mother in law, and she is such a sweetheart. The things I know what heris that she is in love with my brother in law of course. my husbands brother is a fireman who makes great money fot the both of them and all he does is blow it every week on beer and materialistic stuff that is unnecessary. She has been tryin to get pregnat for a very long time with him and for some reason she just cant. They live with her my husbands parents and from what they tell me is that she is messy and never offers to help clean up at their house. My mother in law still cooks and washes my brother in laws clothes because that is the kind of mother she is. She will die before anything happens to their kids. I know her husband longer than my husband because we used to be in school together and he had grown a crush on me before. I am not sure if she even knew that but i doubt he told her. Of course I didnt want anything to do with him because i secretly had a crush on his brother, which is now my husband.
When she finally found out that we were getting married, she made several sarcastic comments to my husband such as: are u sure you wanna get married, it is more bills to pay?? Were you thinking about having children right away because it can be expensive??
My poor husband never disrespected her and answered, bills are bills, we will get through it. & yes we want children but not right away.
I mean, why would she ask such questions. We are probably the most two resposible people. We manage our bills and we both work!!
Anyways, on our wedding day, she never approached us and had this ugly face on her the whole time like she hated the world. After 6 months after we married, sure enough I became pregnat. We really didnt plan to have kids for a good while becasue I had just started a great job with great pay and I wanted no interuptions. Its not like I wanted to gloat about it on purpose. I never heard a congrats from her and my mother n law could not have been any happier.
The whole time i was pregnat, and we would get together for holidays, my husband would constantly tell me to please talk to her, basicallly befriend her. So I have always tried to be the bigger person and make conversation with her. I'm usually the funny girl and always come up with retarded jokes that made people laugh so I went ahead and started to throw jokes out there as well. All I got was very short answers or sometimes she'd just look away or even made a mean smirk. I was always embarrased because I am like a dummy talking to myself. I am so close to my sisters and i have a grup of friends that i too call family, and I ended up having 4 baby showers. One from my sisters, one from my friends, one from my mom, and one from my mother in law. I had no idea i was gonna have this!!
After I had my son, my brother in law paid a visit 2 wks later and brought her over to MY house to see the baby. Unfortunatley I was in the restroom when they were seeing my baby while my husband was holding him. After my brother in law held him, he asked her "Do u wanna hold him?" She rapidly replied "No, I have enough kids in my life," LIKE OMG, how could u say that about a newborn!! If it wasnt for my husband to tell me that, i would not have known the comment she made.
After time went buy, my husbands cousins who are so nice as well came to visit and i told them how i felt about her and how i feel she does not like me. They finally tell me, "I know I didnt realize she didnt like you cuz at your baby shower she was talking mean things about you." I was like WHAT!?, she was talking about me @ my own baby shower!? They said that my bro in law forced her to go and she didnt want to be there cuz I had like 4 baby showers already and that his family is always helping me and my husband out with money and items. If only she knew that I have lent them over 2,000 dollars in the past, helped fix their computers when they go down, and i at least pick up after myself at their house, even wash everyones dishes. My father has always raised me to work and budget my money so i have always been able to take care of myself and my family and never depend on anyones help when I had 2 good hands and walking feet.
"my husband & I finally purchased a house. It just so happens that she grew up in the same street she grew up in.. UGH!
Now keep in mind, when she comes around I dont say anything to her cuz i try to respect my husbands family. Shes never around unless they are. So they came to visit us and sure enou
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